Self-Care Spring

Demystifying the Instagrammable self-care trend.

A graphic depicts tips, tricks, and several methods of self-care.

by River Brown, Copy Editor
April 20, 2023

After we’ve cleaned out our houses, gotten rid of old clothes and welcomed in the spring season, there may still be something missing to welcome in the warmer weather.

As we push through one more quarter until summer break, it can be easy to neglect our own well-being. But, unlike low-rise jeans, self-care never goes out of style. Now that warmer months approach, here’s what you can do to make this one a self-care spring.

What is self-care?

In simple terms, take care of yourself. It’s managing your stressors to make your days flow smoothly. It’s taking time to fill up your gas tank, so to speak, so you don’t run yourself into the ground.

Self-care differs from person to person, as not all of the same things will calm everyone down, according to Healthline and Everyday Health.

“Honestly,” Alexandra Larson ‘25 said. “[I think self-care is] just doing something that makes me happy and calm.”

Common Misconceptions

In reality, self-care is a term fairly open to interpretation. Yet as the phrase has become more and more adapted to social media and the internet, stigmas tend to surround it.

“I feel like a lot of people see [self-care] as either being full of yourself,” Amie Husband ‘25 said. “[Or] maybe only caring about your own happiness.”

But, others disagree.

“It’s not selfish to be able to do the things that we need to do to be present and energetic and available to others,” self-care Coach Gracy Obuchowicz said in Healthline.

Even without these strict rules, an additional idea is that one needs money and time to successfully practice self-care. However, by slowly ingraining self-care habits into your life and approaching it with a different mindset, self-fulfilling methods can be learned and practiced in the busiest of schedules.

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Honestly, [I think self-care is] just doing something that makes me happy and calm.

— Alexandra Larson '25

Another misconception of self-care is that there’s a certain correct way to go about it.

One Healthline article describes a mother’s experience with implementing self-care in her life by taking time to include 20 minutes a day for a walk, a book or other ideas she deemed relaxing. She described herself falling into panic attacks instead of taking time for self-care because she felt these activities were things she “should” be doing, and not what would work for her. She also explains feeling as though she didn’t deserve self-care.

“I struggle with actually taking care of myself sometimes for long stretches of time,” Husband said. “Sometimes I have to force myself to eat and drink because I [tell myself] I don’t deserve it. But I’ve been doing better just taking care of myself.”

For many, self-care may not be taking time to go to the spa but learning to take care of your basic needs.

To make your self-care experience better, it is important to know that not all activities fall under that category. At the same time, self-care certainly isn’t a one-size-fits-all, either. For that reason, it’s important to understand the differences between numbing, self-improvement and self-care.

Self-improvement is the idea of bettering ourselves and aspects of our lives. Often confused with self-care, self-improvement “fixes” issues one has with oneself, requiring work and dedication. While self-care requires a bit of determination as well, the goal is not for it to be hard.

Numbing is practicing behaviors that often look like self-care, but differ in a very important aspect: their enjoyment is temporary. If a problem bothers you, you may be tempted to engage in numbing activities such as overindulging in food, alcohol, television and other methods of distraction, according to Psychology Today’s Susan Biali Haas, M.D.

Self-care is the practice of relaxing and taking time for yourself by engaging in enjoyable and bettering activities. For some, it can be getting a massage, but for others, it may be something entirely different.

When asked what the first thing they thought of when hearing the term “self-care,” students responded with a variety of activities including drawing, listening to music, playing video games and even reminding themselves to take time in the day dedicated to things they like to step away from school.

What next?

Now that the basics are covered, some may wonder how to go about implementing self-care into day-to-day life, especially with a busy schedule. It is important to add small practices into your routine a small bit at a time. That way, the amount of self-care is not overwhelming and you can test out what works for you at your own rate. The other thing to take into consideration is varying your self-care activities, so you get a well-rounded experience, nurturing your physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

The other thing to take into consideration is varying your self-care activities, so you get a well-rounded experience, nurturing your physical, mental and emotional well-being.

“Sometimes self-care is as simple as putting on a documentary you like and drawing on your iPad,” Larson said. “So that’s usually what I do.”

“I usually go to the gym after school,” Patrick Spender ‘23 said. “[The gym] is like a place to just go and de-stress after the day. [I can] just let all of my stress out.”

For more information on how to create a self-care plan, check out How to Make a Self-Care Checklist That Actually Works for You.